Note: For the duration of Riley's mission, this blog will be produced and edited by his parents, Daisy and Todd Stonely.

Monday, June 13, 2016

Week 52: Being sick is no fun. Building ramps rocks! :)

Dear Friends and Family,

This week has been such a long one! Elder Valenzuela and I both got sick from some virus and have been in and out all week! The funny part was that every day there was something that popped up that made us get out of the house and do missionary work or try to get something done, like building a ramp... HAHA so we never got better! Though today we are feeling just a tad bit better. :)

But like I said, We built a ramp this week! Well parts of a ramp. Since we are the only young people in the branch, the man who was in charge of building the ramp had us over three times this week to try to get this ramp done. This has been a 7 year long service activity that has been going on where this couple needs a ramp. Though its been all talk and no action until Brother Day moved in and he got put in charge of building the ramp! It has been an awesome service opportunity for us though. :) And we are looking forward to the finished product. I will have to send pictures once it comes through. :)

Other than that, we have had a slow week this week! I love you all so much and hope you keep care. :) I had a spiritual highlight to share then forgot it... So you all will have to wait till next week. :)
Love you much!

Elder Stonely


Monday, June 6, 2016

Week 51: Fried catfish is amazing, but our investigator is Boss

Dear Friends and Family,

I've been out a year and it doesn't feel like it... It has gone by TOOOO fast.

This week was quite the week! For those of you who have seen the pictures of the Catfish and are wondering if I have eaten them or not, YES! I have. :) They are amazing! I don't like seafood, but freshwater catfish is amazing! It doesn't even taste fishy! HAHA Or maybe it was just the way we cooked it. So our landlord said we could fish all we want and catch all we want and eat all we want. So it looks like we have a fresh market in our backyard ;) It will be good eating the next few weeks!

As far as missionary work goes, I had two really great experiences this week. One, I was able to go on a trade-off (which is where we switch companions for a day) with our zone leaders. And I really learned a lot from them on how to better my teaching and help my area and I am truly grateful for the leaders that we have! I know that they are inspired to help us every day and throughout our own responsibilities. :) And the second, was that we found a really sick investigator! His name is Jason. And Jason is 18 and just graduated from high school. He is a Boss. And we are teaching him and hoping that it will lead to baptism so he can liven up this old branch! He has gone through a lot of struggles in his life and took meeting us as a sign. I know that we were inspired to meet him and to help him out! Updates may be given to you all if I can remember :) Just know that he is awesome!

Other than that, I just wanted to bear my testimony of the Gospel. It is amazing and truly is a plan for us to receive the happiness here and the eternal life after death. I am grateful for all of you who have taught me the ways to become a better person. And I look forward to more. ; )

Much love from Elder Stonely,

Cairo GA.
Fried catfish. Yum!!!
Ramp building service project.
One of these things is not like the others...


One of these things is still not like the others...







Monday, May 30, 2016

Week 50: Our plans fall through but not the Lord's

Dear Friends and Family,

First off, just wanted to let you all know that since it is memorial weekend, I do not have much time to email. :) So, you will all be receiving this great email from me this week! I will get back to all the other emails next week when we have more time :) I love you all!

This week we had a hard time with finding people to teach and things to do. Though it was a huge testimony builder for me in the idea that when we go out and put our faith to the test, things happen and blessings come. We had multiple days where we had our plans fail on us or things were not happening, though when we went to try to visit someone else, we were blessed. This past Friday we had a great day planned! Everything was set and ready. We showed up to the first appointment with a less active member that was pretty solid, though he was not there and had forgotten. The whole day continued like that... It was around 4 o'clock and we had no plans left... so we decided to go see a potential investigator in the area, though they were not home either. We sat there and were deciding on where we could go when we got a phone call from a member who asked if we could come over and help bust through some concrete to start digging wholes for a ramp that we are putting in. We were so happy that we were given the opportunity to serve and help the members out. Plus, it was extremely fun! I now know how to break through concrete with a sludge hammer. HAHA 

This Sunday was also a great one! We were bummed because our plans yet again had fallen through. We were on our last planned activity around 6 pm and were wondering what we were to do. So we decided to go visit a former investigator. We looked for the house, but the address that we had did not exist. We decided to keep going around the neighborhood and scout things out. We felt that we should knock on a specific door that we had passed about three times. We knocked, and a Hispanic from Mexico answered the door. We got talking with him and expressed our feelings about the message that we shared and asked if we could teach him what it was. He gladly accepted and we taught his family. It was cool because we came in and he rounded up his whole family. Including his wife who had delivered a baby two days previous. It was a great lesson! And he really enjoyed it and the questions that he had were amazing. It was a huge testimony builder for us! Oh, and he also invited us to a party that he is going to hold for his daughter next week. So there are a lot of potentials for baptism right there! HAHA

Well, I am grateful for all of you and for all of you who support us as missionaries. We are truly blessed as we go out and try to find and we are grateful! I am seeing miracles in this little branch, though rough at times, there are many blessings hidden behind the walls. I wish you a great week this week and best of luck in all you are to accomplish! Much love from Cairo! 

Elder Stonely
Fishing at the pond.

I think I've got this mastered!
"And Jesus said unto them, Come ye after me, and I will make you to become fishers of men." Mark 1:17

Monday, May 23, 2016

Week 49: Short and Sweet

Dear Friends and Family,

I'm still alive, haven't eaten a fish yet, and we are doing awesome!

This week was a great one for us all! Though there was a lot of slow time that we had to fill with knocking on doors and talking with people. It was a joy to try go out and find people despite how hard it was. We are hoping that it will get better! Only blessings from here!

Well one funny thing that happened this week was that I was riding on my bike and we stopped to visit someone. They weren't home, so we got right back on our bikes and headed out. Though when I got on my bike, I noticed that my front tire was completely out of air... and it was popped... HAHA So we were about 4 miles away from the car and did a lot of walking. HAHA So, that was my week! Sorry for the short email this week, Its a busy day today so its ganna be a short one. I love you all much!

Next week email hopefully will be better :) Love you all!

Elder Stonely!

Welcome to Georgia, Elder Stonely!
Look at my new friends...



Monday, May 16, 2016

Week 48: Endure to the End

Dear Friends and Family,

This Week I learned something very important. Well maybe not so important, but special. We had the opportunity to visit a couple of the Less active couples in the branch as well as a couple of solid members. As you all know, the members here are all mostly older. So the lesson I learned was about Enduring to the end. As we went to visit these members, I came to the realization that a lot of them have super strong spirits and testimonies of the gospel. They do all they can every day to become more like their savior and it is very easy to see in them. I marveled at one Senior couple, the Mallories, who are going through pretty much any problem you can name. Financially, with family, friends, health. Name it, they got it! Though as we got to know them and visit with them, they expressed their faith in the Lord and shared with us many dear experiences. I learned from them that really the only thing that matters is our dedication to continue to better ourselves. Though they never told us straight out that they were developing Christlike attributes, I saw every attribute very strongly in them. As well as the other senior couples whom we visited. There are very few members here in Cairo, but they are the strongest in the state of Georgia! or probably the world!!! Sister Mallory, was worried more about doing missionary work for those around her than she was about her own concerns.  To me, a great example of charity, something I have been working on for a while now. They are all role models for me now. 

Well also, the Mallory family are Native Americans who live on a Native American Reserve, and they got talking about their ancestors and their stories and all of the information about Native Americans. I thought that was cool to see!

This week was also transfer week! We were curious to see what would happen because Elder Valenzuela thought that he would be getting transferred. None the less, we are both still here in Cairo! I was also called to serve as the District Leader here and will be looking forward to this service opportunity! 

I love you all so much and hope that you enjoy this next week :) Much love from Elder Stonely :)

Cairo!
BOSS!
Elder Stonely in Cairo is Boss!

P.S... My humility may need some help... HAHA
 
Two lovely Jehovah Witnesses knocked on our door, so I gave them some German Chocolate.

Yeah, I caught a fish! Now if I could only learn how to prepare them properly...

Me and a helicopter.

My companion with a baby.

Together for another six weeks!
 

Monday, May 9, 2016

Week 47: Mothers Day :)

Dear Fellow Family and Friends :)

This week we had the best gift of all and were able to call home to our families! It most definitely was a joy to see my family and also my companions family. They were talking super fast in Spanish and it seemed to me that there was always two or three people talking at the same time. HAHA It was different then mine where we all took turns. :) But it was such a great day! I love you mom!

As far as the rest of the week, we had the opportunity to go and see a bunch of people both new and old. :) We had a lot of referrals from Salt Lake Headquarters and from other missionaries which seemed to keep us busy. It was a testimony builder for me. Some days as missionaries when the work gets slow we start to think that we have talked with everyone and no one wants to hear what we have. Though, seeing so many referrals come in this week I slapped myself in the face and realized that there are a lot more prepared people than we think. All we have to do is be obedient and do everything we can to find them. And we shall. :) Well on top of all that, we enjoyed Sunday and the talks that were given by some of our fathers in the ward. There are very few members here, though it feels like one huge family who share every mother! Everyone is so close and I could feel that bond in church as we talked about mothers. It was enjoyable. :)

Well today I will be going fishing hopefully. We have a pond in the backyard of our missionary house, so my goal, though I hate seafood, is to catch a cat-fish and eat it. We will see how that one turn outs. I love you all and hope you enjoy your week! Sorry there are no pictures from this week. I will get some next week maybe hopefully... HAHAHA

Much love from Cairo Georgia!

Elder Stonely

Family photo over Skype (sans Brooke & Tanner).

Monday, May 2, 2016

Week 46: Count Your Blessings


Dear Friends and Familly,

This week was awesome. :) I should probably say that every week cause they are all awesome. And they only get better! We did a lot of service this week as usual and helped a couple members and investigators around the house and cleaning the yards. If any of you have been down here you know that plants grow REALLY fast and if you don't keep up with it, you have a jungle in your backyard. Literally a jungle... there is a type of vine here that someone told me grows 6 inches a day.... Yeah I'm NOT down to cut that thing after a week! HAHA But we definitely felt the spirit and felt good throughout the service. Except for when one member wanted us to set up a new TV for him and the moment he turned it on there was a swear word. Yeah... the spirit left. HAHA

One experience this week that I had was while serving for one of our investigators. Their names are Ana and Beto. They are from El Salvador and are SOOOO nice. They are some of the sweetest people ever. And I credit it to their situation and their experiences. While working in their yard with them we learned of their life and they told us their story. Pretty much I know how blessed I am to be living here in the states. EXTREMELY BLESSED!!!!!!! There are many people outside of the states whom are struggling and who are not able to have great lives. And I thought a lot about how the gospel helps all of God's children grow their lives spiritually which makes up for other things. For many families, the gospel is all they have. And what a blessing to have! I was humbled this week to find out just how blessed I have been and now see with greater eyes the purpose of the gospel. ITS ALL SO WE CAN BE HAPPY!!!! Just be happy! Its easy :0 live the gospel! Its not hard :) and you will be super blessed. :)

My fellow spiritual brothers and sisters, :) I love you all so much. I know that the gospel is true and that it can bless every aspect of your live no matter what your situation is and no matter how bad you have it! Also remember that you don't have to be perfect to receive the blessings of the gospel. It just matters the direction you go! I just now remembered this quote, but not 100% sure whom its from. I believe its Elder Holland. But he said something along the lines of, "you just have to make sure you are wearing the right jersey and are on the right side." Are you wearing the right jersey on the right team??? If not, walk over. :) Its easy. :) I love you all so much!

Elder Stonely
the best town in the United states~!

CAIRO! Yes it is home to the famous baseball player, Jackie Robinson, the first African American to play Major league baseball! i need to see the monument... HAHA

Love you BIG! with big letters :)

The Beautiful skies in the morning :) literally this is every morning... HAHAH
I was hissing with a cat! Yeah, I'm weird...